Learn to Trust Yourself with Vanessa Somerton

Stop Overthinking Every Damn Thing

Trust Yourself. Make a Decision. Carry On.

Let's be honest: You have no issues making decisions for everyone else. Yet, when it comes to your own, you are tossing and turning at 2 am. We're not playing that game anymore. It's time to feel just as confident making decisions for yourself.

Together, we are learning to:

  • Stop overthinking every little thing

  • Learn to trust yourself

  • Make the decision and carry on

Letters From Ness

I write about the thoughts that keep us awake, the choices we keep putting off, and what it takes to trust ourselves anyway. The next letter goes out Tuesday. It's free to tag along.

Vanessa Somerton | Stop Overthinking and Learn Self-Trust | Made for Women

I'm a woman who's been overthinking right alongside you

Becoming a mom at 19 taught me to think ahead, solve problems and figure things out on the fly. When my kids grew up and I became an empty nester, I realized all those years of being responsible had turned thinking things through into thinking things to death.

Turning Overthinking Into Action

Now, I'm sharing the honest stories, hard-earned lessons and practical tools that help you stop second-guessing yourself.

Your Decisions. Your Life. Your Call.

I'm not a guru. I'm not here to tell you what to do or promise you'll never make a wrong decision or that overthinking will completely go away. I'm here to remind you that you don't need another person's permission, another opinion, or a guarantee that everything will work out.

You can trust yourself to make your own decisions, even when you don't know exactly how they'll turn out.

One Tiny Promise Challenge to Stop Overthinking

Build self-trust in 10 minutes a day

Welcome to One Tiny Promise, a free 31-day challenge to help you make everyday decisions faster, trust your own judgment, and stop reopening choices you've already made.

All in less than 10 minutes a day.

Women are learning to trust themselves again

"I just read your mind-shifting book and I am every single thing you have listed. I felt like you were talking directly to me."

- Cheryl

"I'm blown away!!! When I say you're doing something different, I mean NOBODY is doing what you're doing."

- Shawna

Now is the time to get out of your head already

Overthinking and Self-Trust Vanessa Somerton

Everyone Trusted Me to Figure It Out. Yet, I couldn't help myself.

I was the woman everyone trusted to figure things out. I built businesses, solved problems, and made hard calls for other people. This is the story of how I started learning to trust myself.

Overthinking and Self-Trust | Vanessa Somerton

Why Capable Women Overthink and What Self-Trust Looks Like

You’ve handled hard things your whole life. So why does one decision about your life send you looking for seventeen opinions and a guarantee? Let’s talk about what’s really going on.

Overthinking and Self-trust | Vanessa Somerton

How These Stories Help You Make Your Own Damn Decisions

My stories won’t give you the answer to your life. But one might help you spot the question you’ve been avoiding and trust yourself enough to answer it.

Imagine What You could Do if You stopped Second-guessing yourself

One honest letter each Tuesday to help you stop second-guessing yourself and make decisions with more confidence.

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